Anonymous: Hi, Please I have a story to share.
Empire: Thank you for opening up to us. If you wouldn’t mind, share with us and we will post it in the group for us to discuss.
Anonymous: hmm it’s this guy who when I came to school he was the first guy who proposed to me but I didn’t accept his proposal due to some reasons I can’t share with you. We became close friends more like brother and sister even though I knew he has feelings for me but I didn’t bother and maintained the friendship status between us. I got a boyfriend on campus and felt I could tell him but something told me not to do it because it might hurt him.
One day he came to visit me which I didn’t expect because my guy was around. He met my guy with me lying on my bed after some romantic moves🙈. This my friend jokingly made fun of the scene and left with the saying he would see me later on campus. My guy asked who he was and I told him we are just good friends.
I didn’t know he was hurt seeing us🤦🏿♂ I called him if we could meet and talk about something. We met on campus and I told him that was my boyfriend and he said oh OK that’s fine and advised me to be good as a friend will do. We didn’t spend more than 10min and he left with some strange excuse. I felt he was hurt but anytime we meet he would be laughing and acting like he is not hurt hmmm. I didn’t like him hiding his feelings from me tho because it makes me feel bad.
Somewhere last semester I caught my boyfriend having sex with another girl in his room💔😭😭😭😭 I felt betrayed and disappointed, I cried to this my friend and I told him what I saw 🤦🏿♂ Could you imagine he calmed me down and said it’s nothing so I shouldn’t be crying over some cheap boy who doesn’t know what he wants. I was sad but this my friend has been there for me all this while which I didn’t know how to thank him for everything he’s done for me. Before vacation, I forced myself on him and had sex with him🙈🙈 I am now in love with this my friend to the extent I can’t go a day without talking to him. I feel loved by him with his actions and all that.
Last week he posted some girl in my class on his status, I got jealous and asked what’s the girl doing on his status and that he should remove the picture only to get the heartbreaking story of my entire life😭😭
He is dating her, he told me that girl has been his girlfriend since but because I was available for such conversations he didn’t know how to tell me and that he is sorry about it. I feel so used and broken.
I am planning on approaching my course mate to warn him about us 🤦🏿♂
I love this guy, I can’t lose him so please help me.
Empire: Hmmmmmm it is well my dear.
Please read and analyze critically before you give your take.
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